One major key to the Self-Esteem Balancing Actliving is having a successful happy life in your portion of Self-esteem. The biggest difference between ego and self-esteem is how well it is balanced. There are times with self-esteem when you could be looking less than confident, appear confident or too confident could make you appear arrogant. You must be true and honest with yourself.
Healthy Self-Esteem
Healthy self-esteem is one where you have to be real and have the confidence, to be honest with yourself. You need to love yourself no matter what. Healthy self-esteem encourages even when you make a mistake to keep going and live your life to the fullest.
Over-Inflated Self-Esteem (arrogant)
Over-inflated self-esteem is unhealthy. Be honest with yourself as this can trick your mind into thinking you are better than everyone else. This is unhealthy as it can alienate your friends and family.
Low Self-Esteem
Lowe self-esteem can leave you feeling like you have zero confidence and constantly reflecting on what you did wrong. It can also leave you paralyzed from making decisions fearful of making mistakes.
Dangers of Unbalanced Self-Esteem
If you are unbalanced on your self-esteem you are probably missing out on some of the greatest things in life as you are too afraid to make a mistake. You probably deal with feeling unworthy.
Understanding the Meaning of Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is defined as confidence. We determine our own self-worth through our confidence/self-esteem. You cannot respect yourself if you do not believe in yourself. You have to believe you deserve happiness and are worthy of it.
Relationships
Have you ever said to yourself glad I’m not arrogant like that? You could be if you have that overinflated sense of being better than others. This puts you in danger of losing your closest relationships of people who really care about you.
Lying to Yourself
Many times, the person who tries to appear completely confident and has inflated self-esteem is typically hiding their low self-confidence. Not healthy trying to hide that from yourself. It causes you to be off-balance.
Be Honest with Yourself
To believe in your self-worth you have to have a healthy conversation with yourself. You have to be honest with yourself. Don’t hide behind fear or other peoples’ belief in you.
Self-esteem is truly a balancing act. Each and everyone has to work on it. To build healthy and balanced self-esteem you must be honest with yourself. Then and only then can you look at the real you and change your view of the world and the people in it.
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